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Comment on Parenting Together: Authoritarian vs. Permissive Parenting by Paul

Paul — Wed, 01 May 2013 21:28:35 +0000

Nice article. Thank you.

Comment on Why People Gossip and How to Avoid it by Melissa Griffin

Melissa Griffin — Sat, 27 Apr 2013 02:15:23 +0000

You don’t think it is odd to be curious about someone else’s life. Get a life of your own and be curious about that. It’ll only get better. I have a female who has been leaving me messages for months not to say “Hey girl was out living my life and thought about you and decided to give you a call
and say hello”. She keeps saying she is concerned and I’m trying to figure out when I told her “A grown woman” when she needed to be concerned about me “A grown woman”. I already have a modher and she has never had to worry about me. I don’t need my friends too. I don’t need those

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Comment on Why People Gossip and How to Avoid it by Melissa Griffin

Melissa Griffin — Sat, 27 Apr 2013 01:57:47 +0000

I can’t stand gossip. However, I love conversation which most women these days don’t seem to know how to do. I believe that is why most are long time singles. I have always worked with men and have always been happy at work until the economy changed and I had to take a job in an office that was 90% female. I was miserable because all they did all day was gossip. They never shut up! They felt any question they wantes to ask you was okay so I just wouldn’t respond and just leave them standing there talking to themselves. Honestly, I have no tolerance for women today. They’re needy and need an assigned therapist with them at all time cause they’re blind.

Comment on Narcissism by janiny

janiny — Wed, 24 Apr 2013 07:28:53 +0000

Hi,
your comment is very nice..
Since we have become such a celebrity driven culture, I thought it might be amusing to imagine what it might be like to be a celebrity. Consider this like taking a vacation from your everyday life.

Comment on Guest Author SAM VAKNIN, PhD: “He Abuses Me in So Many Ways. How do I Cope?” by Quinn

Quinn — Mon, 01 Apr 2013 15:34:12 +0000

What? No! None of your solutions are good.

The correct solution is “You cannot change a person. Leave until they make the choice and put in the effort to recognize the need to change themselves and set change into motion.”

NEVER trap an abuser, give him a taste of his own BS medicine or try in other ways to play mind games. These people are not only wired to excel in this, raised to live like this or programmed to think like this, THEY CAN BE VERY DANGEROUS INDIVIDUALS.

Do not get into a war with an abuser. If you were able to best an abuser’s manipulative ways, you would not be in a relationship with one.

Get out. Move on. Ask for help if you have to. But DO NOT test this person. They’re like black holes that suck up all the light around them and when challenged, are like Terminators and will stop at nothing to one up your efforts to be a hero. So don’t be a hero. Leave. Now.

Comment on About by zephaniah

zephaniah — Mon, 01 Apr 2013 11:35:24 +0000

Thankyou for a great insightful site.

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Australia.

Comment on “I’m shocked at how much I criticize my Dad for letting other people walk all over him and for not standing up for himself.” by debbie rangiawha

debbie rangiawha — Sun, 31 Mar 2013 16:52:28 +0000

Everything said here is totally meaningful and true. I gave up my friends for awhile to be in touch with reality more so what i like activity wise. I gave up all my interests for knowledge and experience for “how to deal with politics in the work field and keep a job” not holding work down. This is to help me deal with where negative comes from in my life and from who….There leads me to great deal of my thoughts using my own positive belief and value of me to the best of my ability of strength to survive and carrying a strong deal of thick skin. Been overly sensitive will always destroy your values and means of reason to the critics you know personally, professionally and emotionally. Things will become personal in each critiscm that has been addressed and dericted by another….

I believe it incurs to bullying and freedom of speech taken from individual to hoping their opponent they critical too will withdrawal, be depressed and same level as them. They want control and not reason or bother with a person who is pathetic to them.

i have experience this with friends in the pass and i dealing in another level now.
I back anyone up who been threw this position.

Comment on Guest Author SAM VAKNIN, PhD: “He Abuses Me in So Many Ways. How do I Cope?” by Genny Mcglockton

Genny Mcglockton — Sun, 31 Mar 2013 13:51:16 +0000

Thank you. I wish I could end this and the truth be known.