Tag Archives: doing things together

“Stop nagging me about watching the game!”

Posted on Friday, October 28, 2011 by Alison

So what I really meant was… “Please don’t ask me to give up something that I truly enjoy. I’d like to watch the game without feeling guilty about it. But I really want to do something with you later when … Continue reading →

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“I never get to go skiing anymore. My partner doesn’t like to ski.”

Posted on Friday, February 18, 2011 by Alison

Saying “I don’t get to” implies a lack of power and control over your own life—needing to ask for permission. It’s important in relationship that both partners continue doing the things they are passionate about. If you love skiing, make … Continue reading →

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