Tag Archives: loss

James Hillman: Depression in a Manic Society—“I have to stay busy. If I stop, I’ll feel sad and empty inside.”

Posted on Monday, October 31, 2011 by Alison

There are many good things about being active and working hard. Yet, some people display a mania in the busy-ness of their lives as a manic defense against depression. They fear that their energy and purpose will suddenly collapse if … Continue reading →

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When a friend has lost a loved one: “I haven’t called because I don’t know what to say.”

Posted on Monday, July 25, 2011 by Alison

When a person experiences a tragedy like the loss of a child or partner, that loss will remain at the forefront of his or her mind for a very long time. People are different in how they’d like to be … Continue reading →

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The Fear of Loss:
“I don’t want to hold myself back anymore.”

Posted on Wednesday, June 22, 2011 by Alison

Until we are willing to accept potential disappointment and heartache, having close relationships can be perilous. A willingness to tolerate loss helps us to embrace the risks and joys of love. In addition to the obvious possibility that the relationship … Continue reading →

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